hihi. wa shit man. Dono why recently people have been saying im super emo and pessimistic la. I think it must bcos of the posts i did on my blog la. They say it sounds sad and stuff. But really mehs? But everyone has their happy and sad episodes in life right. Well that was when i was sad la. But now im all ok la. Cos i'm finally able to get over some stuff. Well here's my advice. Don't let the small things get to you (from val, my treasured counsellor. haha), don dwell on the pain failures. let them go and you'll be albe to see the bright side of life (this one i got from myself) AND DON'T EVER FALL IN LOVE. IT SUCKS. i mean..for now la. Cos right now stupid girls will be saying irritating stuff like 'I think I'm too young to be in relationship' (which in the first place we (guys) didn't even say that) and 'have you thought of the consequences? What if I don't end up being with you? Won't all your love be wasted?' Wa knn..as a matter of fact, we like/love you not to think of the consequences la. Walau eh. if its like that then people won't be getting married or be attached already. I mean..what matters most is as simple as the fact that we like you la. Things like 'if you don't end up with me' we can think about it later right? Besides, girls..if you don't like this guy. Just tell him, break his heart ONCE and end the whole thing. Don't go beating about the bush for ages and expect him to understand that he is not meant for you can. It hurts la. I know you girls ahv ethe privilege to choose and SLOWLY pick for that DREAM GUY of yours but don't have to continually break some guy's heart and make him feel sad, rejected, unwanted, sinful, idiotic, guilty and dono what for shit can. Worse of all, don't go acting like you are someone else when he is not there la. Cos it reallysort of makes him feel like he's tehe one making you uncomfortable. just be youself la. Anw. the thing is guys..DON'T EVER FALL IN LVOE OR THINK YOU LIEK A GIRL NOW. It will affect you liek shit la. Don't believe can ask the famous NG JIA HAO, my good fren. Apparently he seems to be experiencing the same problems i did before. But oh wells, i managed to sort it out. Well now its his turn and i don't know how he is going to tackle it la but just don't la. We know how SHITTY it feels man. Oh ya. And 1 more thing, to all girls..whenever a guya sk you out one on one..if you are going to wathc movie together (which is most liekly the case) please let the guy pay for the tickets and stuff can. I mean..you may not understand but we feel obligated to foot for everything since we liek you la. Don't go like arguing and paying even for HIS tickets. it really makes us feel guilty can. Like we will think 'this girl is doing this cos she doesn't want me to like her' and stuff. Ok. That's all i ahve to say. Mab i should call this post advice for premature 'lovers'. lol. Oh wells. Cya guys around. I'll post whenever i feel liek it la. So don't chase me. haha. cos i might be quite busy nowadays with all the hectic schedule for tests coming up. Oh and can all who come to my blog pls LINKKKK me. I'm desperate. haha. THANKS! (:(: With love..